When it comes to our kids, they need to be onboard with obeying both of their parents and not just one. They should not be disobeying what one parent is saying and running to their other parent in disregard to his/her needs.
God loves marriage and hates divorce. Let our minds be renewed in the love of God each day. If any of you have impure thoughts for another person, give it to Jesus and let him drain the impurities from your mind.